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You may feel that your life and your search are like a large puzzle. We are all born into this world with a certain set of circumstances that are considered our heritage. How are your values formed? What shapes those values? Whether you know your ancestors, your cultural history, your origin, or the obstacles faced by your natural parents, these things are what help to shape your values.
Have you started to search? Does your family history or thinking about your history empower you to look at your life in a way to try and understand that you you need to find some answers to heal, grown, and move on.
Search is really preparing you for meeting the future. Once you meet, you will see how your character has been developed and the foundation of your life. How many of us have searched and feel as if they gained an appreciation for their values, and character, and like in my case become more expressive.
Is there a level of you that realizes that certain things about yourself determine your age, blood type, and personality traits. Don’t we have a choice though or free will for that matter over what we do as individuals with this?
I guess what I am trying to say is that search isn’t just about who did what when or reconnecting or reuniting with your natural parents. It is that but it is also about building a bridge between your past and your future.
When we choose to search, we may find things that are traumatic or that traumatic events have happened in the past. These things are an important piece of the past. You will need to find a balance. You are more than a culture or a family name. You don’t have to alter your likes or dislikes or give you your dreams, preferences, or values because you feel that the person you have found is asking you to.
If you search, complete your search, will you agree with others who feel that search is about loving who you are and understanding where you have come from as well as preparing for the future.
