Step 5 is to obtain your non-identifying ("Non-id")information. This information will generally come from the adoption agency or the state. Although the non-id is designated to provide information, it is not generally enough to locate birth parents or adoptees. However, later on in a search some of its clues can help to verify that you have the correct person. This link will direct you to some previous blogs about the non-id information.

Nearly every state allows the release of non-id, a few states even allow identifying information to be provided. In some states, the non-id may include first names of a birth parent or adoptee. However, this is fairly unusual. Before a searcher or search angel will begin to work on your case, they general require you to have your non-id.

Depending on the state or agency, there will generally be a charge for the non-id. Agencies sometimes charge as much as $150.00 to provide your non-id. The amount of time varies as well, it may take months to receive your non-id. Therefore, it makes sense to apply for your non-id early in your search.

The non-id usually provides the age and physical descriptions of the birth parents (or adoptee). It also will list their occupations at the time of the relinquishment, their educational background and various other important details. Family history of the extended family members is included as well. Some non-id includes a reason for the relinquishment. Although non-id is generally mostly accurate, you cannot rely on it to be completely factual. The non-id is generally compiled by a social worker and many details are subject to his or her interpretations of facts.

When you are requesting your non-id from the agency or state government, also ask to place a letter or form in the file requesting contact. Ask if anything has been placed in the file for you, although chances are slim that they may be anything there. Most people are not aware that they can place photos, waivers or letters in the file.