In my opinion, the term "passive search" is somewhat of a misnomer. A passive search really does not involved any searching. All that a passive search accomplishes is to make it easier if someone comes searching for you.

Some triad members separated by adoption may not feel comfortable searching. Instead they would rather make it easier for their birth family member to locate them. It is a great theory, but often both parties wait for the other party to initiate a search.

A passive search involves mainly leaving a paper or electronic trail for a birth member. They are two main ways to conduct a passive search:

1. Sign up with as many free registries as possible. Some of the larger registries like ISRR.org and Reunite.com have a significant number of matches. However, state registries have the worst records for matches, probably with agencies following close in second place. State registries are generally ineffective for a number of reasons. The two chief reasons for their ineffectiveness are lack of staffing and the fact that two few people are even aware of registries.

2. Leave a form or letter in the adoption file stating that you wish contact. The most common forms at most adoption agencies are the "Waiver of Confidentiality" and "Consent for Contact" forms.

Both of these efforts can and do sometimes produce reunions. However, neither is a method to neccessarily count on. There are reports that some agencies ignore letters or forms in files requesting contact. State laws sometimes affect what agencies can do even when letters or forms are in files.

Nevertheless signing up with registries is worthwhile whether you intend to begin an active search or stick with a passive one. Contacting the agency that originally handled the adoption and asking if there's anything in the file for you is another suggestion.