Although it may sound like a trivial happening, I am tickled pink that I begin the new year with my computer back in operation. Our home computer crashed nearly a month ago, and we just got it back two days ago. For the past couple of weeks, I have been making do with other computers that have made life trying. I am thrilled to have my own familiar computer back in operation.

What will the new year bring for you in your adoption journey? A new search or a brand new reunion? Are you wondering if someday your child may want to take on a search? The world of search and reunion is ever changing and new developments often occur. Laws change frequently and resources come and go.

However, enthusiasm and support for reunions continue to increase. Reunions will become more commonplace as more people in closed adoptions discover the potential benefits of the reunion experience. There also continues to be more help for searchers and those who need some support in guidance as they reunite.

Twenty years ago, reunions were a rarity and therefore little literature was available for those seeking advice on the journey. Once silent voices of adoptees and birth families continue to emerge and many document their journeys to help others. Hearing the stories of other reunited family members lessens some of the anxiety for those seeking a reunion experience.

If you are considering a search in the new year, consider finding an adoption support group in your area if possible. They may be able to provide you with the best advice about search techniques that will work best in your state. If you prepare yourself carefully before and as you search, your chances for success will be greatly improved.

Reunion has been one of the best experiences in my life - not easy - but well worth the effort.