Adoption reunion registries can sometimes match people quickly. However, most registries are mutual consent registries and only work when both parties sign up.

Many people are not aware of these registries which cuts down on the probability that they will result in a match. However, with the popularity of the Internet, I believe that more people find their way to registries every day. Reunite.com's registry currently has over 300,000 people registered. Below are some points to regarding the use of an adoption registry:

1. Many people who use adoption registries cannot completely fill out forms required to sign up because they may not know the information. People who manage the registries understand that this is the case. Don't worry if you do not have all the details to complete a form, just fill out as much as you can.

2. Remember to keep a log or list of all the registries that you are using to try to find your birth relative. Keep your contact information current and/or remove your name when you have found the person. Sometimes people find their birth relative on a registry, yet contact information is outdated. This could prevent the parties from contacting each other. In addition, it is courteous to remove your name from a registry after a match to make the list smaller and more effective for others.

3. Begin first with the free registries. The largest and most effective registries include: Reunite.com which is connected to adoption.com and International Soundex Reunion Registry ("ISRR). Also, try any state run registries even though they are less likely to produce results.

4. Check back frequently with any registries that require that you do so. Some few registries may not contact you, but, you must keep checking back with them. This situation is the case for a few state run registries.

5. Keep in mind that a reunion registry is a way to make yourself available in case you do not want to search. However, if you are intent on finding someone, a registry is usually only a first step and not a substitute for a search.

Adoption reunion registries are a good beginning. Registries are also useful for people who do not want to search, but seek to make themselves easy to find. However, if you do register, be ready to be found!


Further Reading:

Adoption.com Reunion Registry

Reunion registries by State

Mutual Consent Registries

Adoption Database Registry


Photo by Jan Baker 2007