Pulling Back

October 3rd, 2006
Categories: Pull-Backs, Reunion

My previous blog was about boundaries. After I posted the blog, I thought about what happens if the person you are in reunion with erects a boundary and doesn’t do it with open communication? From my experience of talking with triad members I understand that this type of situation leaves one person feeling walled out, powerless and desperate for answers of why are they pulling away. If this happens it is important to understand what is behind the why. The reason that a boundary may be created and not communicate their thoughts and feelings is fear. When we are afraid, like wild animals, humans have two choices, attack or retreat. That wall of silence in reunion may feel like… [more]