Discussing Adoption and Rape Part 4

December 7th, 2006
Categories: Rape, Search

The adoptive father had died a few years prior to the natural mother making contact and the adoptee had an estranged relationship with his adoptive mother. The adoptee and his natural mother talked frequently in the beginning. The adoptee told the natural mother that he didn’t want his adoptive mother to find out he was talking to her because he didn’t think she would support any contact between the two of them. This natural mother decided to respect that the adoptee knows that his natural mother loves him and wants nothing more than to meet him, hold him, look at him and hug him. The natural mother also realizes that she has to wait for the adoptee to be ready… [more]

Discussing Adoption and Rape Part 3

December 7th, 2006
Categories: Rape, Search

This natural mother feels that although her baby was not conceived in love the baby was carried in love and it was in love that she hid her pregnancy so that she could give him life. She loved this baby and she knew that her baby was going to a couple who loved him as much as she did, a couple who could provide form her baby what she could not. This natural mother cried daily and wanted so badly to change her mind and take her baby back but she knew in her heart of hearts that being that young she could not provide for him. She didn’t have a job or an education. The natural mother ended up getting… [more]

Discussing Adoption and Rape Part 2

December 6th, 2006
Categories: Rape, Search

Another story is of a 13 years old female who was raped. This is how she lost her virginity and she got pregnant and had never even had her first period. She was raped, stabbed more times than she could count and was found unconscious by a friend. The 13 year old made her friend swear not to tell her parents. The 13 year old was scared that her dad wouldn’t love her anymore because she wasn’t a virgin. The reason she thought this was that her 17 year old sister had lost her virginity resulting in a strained relationship between her and her dad. She was daddy’s little girl and didn’t want that to happen to… [more]