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04/12/07

Healing the Primal Wound - Conclusions

Posted by : Jan Baker in Adoption Search Blog at 01:06 pm , 435 words, 84 views
Categories: Healing and Recovery, Books to Help Heal

My recent blog on The Primal Wound received enough comments that I think it is worth wrapping up the issue with some conclusions and final thoughts.

So many years after the Primal Wound was written, it is still a controversial theory. However, it has been accepted by many adoptees and researchers. I applaud the book for the benefits it has provided to those who embrace... more

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03/25/07

Healing the Primal Wound in Adoption

Posted by : Jan Baker in Adoption Search Blog at 01:26 am , 444 words, 151 views
Categories: Healing and Recovery, Books to Help Heal

Whether there is really a "primal wound" that occurs after a baby is separated from its mother at birth is a popular topic for discussion in adoption circles. The theory of a primal wound is not reserved exclusively for babies who are adopted. This theory also includes children who are separated at birth from their mothers due to serious medical issues and/or prematurity.

However, the premise of the primal wound was conceived by adoptive mom and therapist Nancy Verrier due to the experiences... more

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